Baby #3 essentials: Hint, they don’t need much!

Well, we’re soon to be officially outnumbered – three kids in the household come December! Third time’s charm? While our experience as parents has taught us that babies require minimal items, there are a few must-haves that have made it to the top of our list. We’ve come to realize that there aren’t many things our little one truly requires. I wanted to share with you a few of my top picks that have been used for my first two boys and will continue to repurchase or use with this little one.

Ok first I have to let out a little vent. Sigh. My favourite OB/Gyn retired one month after I had my second baby, I was so lucky to have him deliver my two huge boys (both over 10lbs lol). So I had to scope out a new doc for this little one. I actually picked the doctor that assisted my fave doc, with my firstborn but it didn’t work out with that one (see my previous post) and now I’m on another doc lol. Anyway, didn’t mean to ramble on with that part. Had to let you know, y’know? K back to regular programming….

I’m pretty sure I donated/gave-away much of the newborn to one year gear. I need to search the house for the rolling bassinet, (I know I gave away *all* the clothes up to 1 year), my breastfeeding pillow, a baby holder (you know those, right?). Let’s dive into my favorite picks.

Sound Machine
I’m still using the portable sound-machine my friend Nicole gifted me for my first boy over 5 years ago. My second baby (ahem, toddler I guess) sleeps with it on every night until I turn it off when I’m about to hop in bed. Holy jumpin’s when it comes to newborns – you gotta say, sleep is a precious commodity for both babies and parents alike.  We know that a sound machine can work wonders in creating a soothing sleep environment. I’m kinda loving the calming white noise too. This time, I may get one that plugs in (we have one that just uses rechargeable batteries right now).

Feltman Brothers
Ok, this brand is the epitome of sophistication. These are the pieces you want to keep forever, and/or gift as heirloom hand-me-down pieces. From delicate smocking and intricate embroidery to vintage-inspired details, every Feltman Brothers piece is a work of art. I wished they had bigger sizes since my 5 year old *loves* to match his younger brother (they have gotten some coordinating sibling outfits from Feltman Brothers in the past). My newborn now has a handful of new pieces to wear too, and since this one is going to be born so close to Christmas, baby is going to wear some holiday outfits from their site too.

Bobux Shoes
We’ve been working with Bobux shoes close to 5 years, and now my second one is wearing his older brothers hand-me-down shoes — they still look so beautiful. Tiny toes deserve the best, and Bobux shoes deliver on both comfort and style. Bobux understands the importance of proper foot development and ensures that their shoes provide the right support and flexibility. My two boys have been wearing primarily their shoes.

BabyTula
I know I’ll be baby wearing a lot with my third little arrival, and I’m so excited to finally have a Baby Tula carrier – this one is called the Hemp Free-to-Grow Baby Carrier in the colour Bronzite and it’s good for carrying up to 45lbs, so technically I could carry my first born the kindergartener in this, ha imagine! I’m excited to wear my newborn in this come December.

UPPAbaby
UPPAbaby strollers have earned their place as our favorite brand for a reason. From the Vista’s adaptability to the Minu’s portability, UPPAbaby has thoughtfully designed strollers that cater to the diverse needs of growing families. As proud owners of both models, we can confidently say that UPPAbaby is the number one brand for our family of 5. With their robust build and sturdy frames, we have the peace of mind that our strollers will last through multiple children, making them a worthy investment. I’m excited to see how pushing the stroller with all 3 kids is going to look – newborn in the bassinet, toddler in the toddler seat, and my 5 year old on what we call the skateboard (piggyback board on UB’s website).

Harppa Baby Bassinet
My one “want” for when my baby is an infant was another bassinet with rolly wheels. I’m 95% certain I got rid of our previous one which was such a perfect size. I like to have baby in a safe space around me at all times, and having it on wheels (with brakes) is key – especially with a rambunctious toddler around who likes to poke at everything. The Harppa baby bassinet has all the bells and whistles: the wheels can flip up and turn the bassinet into a rocker, it has a detachable change table/pad with a buckle to keep babes safe, and also a mosquito net if you decide to take the bassinet outside – or in my case, put it up so big brother doesn’t start poking the infant.

My Brest Friend Pillow
Yes the spelling there is correct. I was gifted one of these with my first born by one of my really great friends. I know I gave this one away after my second one and I were done using it. It’s different than a lot of other nursing pillows out there – it’s so much more firm and a lot more comfortable as it clips on to your waist, has pockets for carrying your essentials: phone, water bottle. Cannot wait to start using it in December!

Remember, every family is unique, and what works for me may not work for everyone. It’s all about finding what resonates with you and your little ones. So, as you embark on your journey as a third-time mom or prepare for the arrival of your first baby, I encourage you to explore these favourite brands of mine, and hey – leave a comment of your fave baby items so I can discover some new ones too!

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How I set my mornings up so they run as smoothly as possible.

I bought a clothing rack on Amazon last month and back in the day, I’m talking way over a decade ago when we lived in Canada, I used to do these daily OOTD pictures and post them up here on spiffykerms at the end of the week – anyone remember those?

Well I started to have to do them again but mom-edition. I pick out my clothes that I want to wear that week, including my bras, undies and even jackets. I put them on hangers and grab the first one in line to wear. I do the same with my boy’s clothes. I love putting together little outfits for them and with my eldest I also include his undies/socks. Each night I take an outfit from his basket and bring it into the “morning basket” is what I call it. Inside the morning basket is this: a water sprayer for his hair, a comb, a brush, sunscreen, and the two boy’s outfits. That way after breakfast clean-up the stuff to get ready for school is right there on the table and there’s no rushing around. It’s fantastic, and I think I’m a genius for coming up with it on my own, ha!

The nightly routine is a slower pace. As much as I reeeeeeally dislike doing it – I must tidy up the entire kitchen before going to bed. Such a dreaded chore. I load the dishwasher, clean the air fryer if used, and put it away in the cupboard because I dislike bulky things out taking up so much space even if it’s used daily. I fill up my sons water bottle, pop it in the fridge, and get his snacks ready for the day and add it to his backpack.

I kinda stick to my plan about 5-6 days out of the entire week with cleaning the kitchen before I head to bed. But it sets me up for success in the morning with a tidy counter-space to make breakfast and get it on the table by a certain time.

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How the 3rd pregnancy is going…

Well, third child ….hard to keep updates on this little beb.

So I’ve been meaning to write more blog posts but honestly at the end of the days I’m simply exhausted – at this point in my pregnancy especially. My little guy (I guess you can call him my middle child now) is a lot different to parent than my oldest, and requires absolute constant supervision or he’s literally into dangerous things regardless if you say stop it’s dangerous. He’ll do it over and over….and over. It’s tough because it’s easiest to parent outside of the house obviously – because nature, the outdoors, library storytimes all keep him occupied and happy and keep the house in order/less messy etc. But I can only get out of the house in the mornings these days since come the afternoon time, I am soooo tired. Oof!

Getting everyone onto a schedule has also taken a lot out of my boys and I since my eldest started kindergarten. Me getting up 3x to pee at night, my middle child being an early riser before my 6am alarm and my oldest staying in bed as long as he can….we’re all pretty tired come Thursday! It’s quite an adjustment for my kindergartener ’cause he loves to sleep, and not used to this school routine.

Since getting back from our Canada vacation back in July I said to myself I’ll start potty-training my middle fella, and stop giving him a pacifier. Well folks, we’re on day 4 of cold turkey of giving up his paci and the poor little boy is all out of sorts with zero naps and a complete personality change (joking. kinda) since he’s overtired he’s getting into kicking me, scratching me etc when he’s overtired, and it’s impossible to get him to relax enough for a nap. So that’s what’s going on.

As for the baby, well baby is giving me a run for my money and they’re not even born yet. I have had to head to the hospital twice last month, one for possible pre-term labour and the second time was for a low fetal heart rate which sounded super scary. I don’t want to get into details but honestly everything is totally fine so far, so that’s relieving.

I’m currently 28 weeks pregnant and at my latest growth scan baby is already measuring at 4lbs which means baby is greater than the 99th percentile for weight, and height. So, keeping on track with competing with the two older siblings who were both way over 10 pound babies at birth.

lol my mood about that….

This month, I switched OBGyns. Mainly because at the time my vehicle was out of commission for 5-6wks and I could only go to appointments when my husband was working from home two days a week. But that also meant I was working at my son’s school for half of one of those two days. Sooooo my schedule was tight and I could tell that my Obgyn staff was putting me in their bad books just due to that and was getting frustrated with me not being able to attend appointments on certain days. And….I don’t want someone delivering my baby thinking I’m being an annoyance to them – right?

Clearly feeling a little overwhelmed lately, but I think I need to head to bed early tonight and get an extra long rest in.

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